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for me i think its 'insecurity', for a lady to make her guy feel jealous. its a merely a sub concious self defence strategy to make the guy idolize her. its a man's world. a woman remains a help meet. na man must find woman n not the other way round
@extinguisher,
Well I think you're wrong and u're contradicting urself.
As a lady (And speaking from experience) if i felt insecure with a guy, i would not want him to be jealous, becos if i did tins that would make him jealous, i might anger him, hence he leaving me.
Not all guys takes jealousy as a way to idolize the babe, some guys would just look at the babe and tink, "whats she feeling like?; abeg waka".
Ladies in the house, jeanie, have i spoken well???
@florafab...ask me in place of jeanie...she will be busy till monday!
@maximus, come wetin be ur own,how well do u know me to say this?biko, gbara ogwugi oooooo.u dey fine my trouble
ngbo jeanie,
where did u go over the weekend?
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Originally Posted by jeanie
[email protected] u jeanie, stabbing me in the back...ooh ooh ooh...l didnt me any harm...why is are d ladies having at me...even flora dat l corrected to change her pix is not grateful...ok...no wahala...l will remain ever silent....how well do l know me to say that...jeanie did u say that...well even peter denied christ...well l know that u ve a beautiful face and voice...u are a workingclass...u r fair in complexion...u stay in(shoulod i)...ur surname is(should i)...u r from(shoud i)...u r a graduate of(should i)...the list is endless...ue email and contact is (should i)....dats to show u dat l do know u at least a lil
ve a nice day
Ladies should always remember that there is a limit to their games. Believe me a lady could loose a dream guy just bcos of this attitude. I dont advise any lady to go in that direction, it might be their undoing ( unless she doesnt like the guy anymore)
Hi Flora.
They use it as a marketing strategy. But come to think of it o,we only feel jealous when we decide to,at times the lady in question might not emit/radiate any molecule of jealousy,just the other party creating a feeling of it even when its not there. Jealousy means liking or loving somebody who inturn,likes someone else. So if there is a valid and sound evidence of creating jealousy in me when we r both emotionally alligned,then she is fired cos thats act of wickedness and will be treated as such. They r sunshine in our lives "Darkens ur skin yet colours ur hair" They hv their gd and bad sides.
Jeanie,Quote:
Originally Posted by Maximus Madiba
I would have loved to say something, but as it is, I'M SPEECHLESS,pls come and bail urself out.
@Walexy4life,
Hi too
@florafab,don't mind kemistkriss,please stop all these ok,am even surprised myself cos i don't know him
I can see an indirect jealousy between Maximus and Jeanie. Don't quote me oh! I didn't say anything.
Anyway, everybody is jealous - both ladies and guys. The difference is "to what extent". Naturally, girls feel an inner satisfaction that some guys cannot understand when they see their guy jealous. At times too, guys feel satisfied to be jealous over their girls. This goes to tell the guy that he still has a value in the girl because he will ordinary not blink a lid if the girl is a thrash. So if he unwittingly feels jealous at times, it is hence a form of feedback control system. At times these are natural and little doses of this jealousy from both sides make the relationship healthy.
However, some girls specialize in "arousing jealousy". To some, it's a way of life, to others, it's a test of how "happening" they are while to others, it's what others are doing - let's join them. Unfortunately. some of them don't realise that in excess, this could piss their guys off and he calls it quit. Though, some use it to push a guy off. When they think he is no longer good for them, they set jealous standards that the guy cannot meet and allow the relationship to die a natural death.
My advice, be moderate. Avoid excessive ...
I will start by saying that jealousy is a natural thing that can happen to you when you feel that you are in possession of something/someone and something/someone is about to takeover without your consent... Even God himself is a jealous God and will go at every length to protect what he has.
Girls may want to know whether their guys will be there for them, so they will create a scene. well that is also risky bcos anything can happen... So girls should be careful bcos it is not a 100% measure to determine their guys mind.
Also guys should learn to be jealous for their girls to show great love and possession. Thanks