What are your desired attributes in the girl or boy you intend to marry?

What are your desired attributes in the girl or boy you intend to marry

coolguy are u a r/ship or marriage counselor?Do u want 2 be one? ;D ;D ;D :)

@ Favournwa

I need answers: not questions!

Honestly coolguy am also surprised at ur queries these past few weeks,all about love, relationship e.t.c.are u planning to get marrried and u want to be sure or what?anyway, for me, first thing count first, a man of my choice must be:

1. Godfearing
2. Educated
3. intelligent
4. good sense of humour
5. caring
6. understanding
7. accommodating
8. neat/clean cos am a very neat lady and i don't tolerate dirts around me
9. romantic,yes he must be very very romantic cos i am too
10.fun to be with
lastly, i am someone that believes in hardwork, even if he is not well to do but is focused, i believe we can make it together.
now coolguy, hope i satisfy ur query somehow.
one luv always.

mmm....

that nice,

well I like to see peoples responses on issues like this

i think the attributes i want in a man in/for marriage are;
1.God fearing
2. a beliver not a gallivanter
3. a man of his words
4. a man that will always praise and appreciate me
5.he has got to listen and value my opinons
6. a neat and caring man
7. a provider
with few physical attributes togeda like hobbies etc
what do u think

d attributes l desire so much in the lady that will be my Queen....

#SHE MUST BE A PERSON WHO IS IN TOUCH WITH REALITY ( ...this implies a lot but Chiefly that God is our maker and there is a purposefor everything He has made...she sould be a powerfulthinker, scheming,hardworking and thinking like a man upstairs,brilliant etc )
#SHE MUST BE A PROCESSED PERSON(...gone through a process of service/discipleship in a living Church...not a daddys girl or softie but someone who has worked her way out from nothing to something)
#SHE SHOULD BE GRACEFUL IN SPEECH AND ACTION...
#SHE MUST BE ATHLETIC IN BUILDING AND BEATIFUL TO BEHOLD...real men ve sixpacks l dont know wat the ladies do ve but she just has to look fit and be fit,slim,very tall,preferably fair in complexion,
#AGE AINT AN ISSUE AS LONG AS AM IN CHARGE...I MEAN IN CHARGE...TONGUE AND TRIBE AINT AN ISSUE TOO
#SHE MUST VE AN AVERSION FOR ADOPTION...

men this is ok for now....but like all human dreams they aint rigid...lt must always fit in perfectly in all the corners!

Coolguy l wish u luck in ur search for a lifepartner...
process urself if u want a processed person...
even gigolos want to settle down with virgins...
life na stage indeed

CORRECTION PLEASE!...


I MEANT TO SAY ...SHE MUST NOT HAVE AN AVERSION TOWARDS ADOPTION...
i.e SHE SHOULD TOLERATE IT AND BE WILLING TO NURTURE NOT JUST HER OWN KIDS BUT OTHERS TOO

intresting piece from you guys.

Still more opioions....

Am waiting

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Originally Posted by coolguy

Am waiting

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Waiting for what? Shuo, make you sef tell us your own! ;D ;D ;D

As for me,

Compatibility!
Outgoing!
Bold!
Realist!
Objective!
Understanding!
Trustworthy!
;) ;) ;)

Coolguy, na wa for u today oh.

You've posted like four controversial topics today for people to debate on; is this ur own way of cooling off?

If you really need advice, y not go to a professional counsellor and get it and stop disturbing us with your questions/inquires.

:P

As for me,
Clever not necessary brilliant
very attractive
God fearing and born again
She must love her parents very well especially her father
Unpredictable
carefree
Independent

as 4 me i need a girl that is independent, facially beautiful and above all from a cool family that does not require much from her.

Mmmmm....... I like the contributions so far

@florafab

This post unfortunately is not made for kids.

So if you chose to be one I can help you.