House pls i want us to deal on this question ..between the guy and the ladies who is more sincere in every aspect of life both in relationship ?
Waiting to hear ur contributions.
Thanks.
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House pls i want us to deal on this question ..between the guy and the ladies who is more sincere in every aspect of life both in relationship ?
Waiting to hear ur contributions.
Thanks.
men r more sincere.
most ladies r pretenders and liers.they can't jst be trusted
Men offcourse.
Ladies sincerity can be said 2 b directly proportional to expected material/selfish gains(at least 8:10 of d ladies)I can prove it if u want me to.
Regards.
Ezebu
Pls do Ezebu throw more lights on that
Cheers
Mavdav,
it's simple!Most ladies would take gifts from men they don't wish to v anytin to do with sayn that such men don't know what 2 do with dia money as such they wanna help them spend there money.In d presence of d guy,they pretend to like them but talk ill of him with there friends at his back.For d sake of cryn out loud,why would a woman take a gift from a man she doesn't like thereby raising his hopes!Let's face d fact!
Rgds
IS MALE BECAUSE FEMALE ARE ALWAYS LIE
I think guys r more sincere, once a guy likes a babe, it's very rare 2 see them playin around, but this is not d case when it comes 2 d babes, they prefer 2 have as many "mugus" as possible
Ladies please come out and say something. The guys are burying us alive.
This is not a question with a straight answer. I'll say none of the two are sincere.
i need to come in sins so far u guys want to kill girls with ur replies...
well, i cant say girls are more sincere cos some girls aint...but u wont blame girls 4 becoming liars n pretenders cos u guys would tell a girl u love her and shower her with gifts and all u can think of just so u can sleep with her. even married men.
on d other hand, a guy sleeps with a married woman, pretending to like/love her wen all he wants is the car, fat bank account and fine apartment she gives to him. a girl that sees a guy shower her with material wealth would classify him as a "mugu" cos she's probably not interested so decides to pretend so she can eat d money he has decided to spend.
so truthfully, d answer to dis question is, NOBODY IS MORE SINCERE, GUY OR GIRL. I BELIEVE EVERYBODY IS TRYING TO PLAY A SMART GAME. SO DNT POINT ALL FINGERS AT GIRLS, COS U GUYS ARE JUST AS GUILTY; LIARS N PRETENDERS LIKE U ACCUSE GIRLS TO BE. REMOVE THE LOG IN UR OWN EYE SO U CAN SEE CLEARLY THE SPECK IN ANOTHER'S EYE.
cooloteri
Pls house where are the ladies i need more contributions
Cheers.
Guy I want to believe the GUYS are more sincere.
cooloteri "omo da da",
u c wen a girl sees a mugu, she goes as far as collectin all does material things with wat she has.
. Nw she beleive she is smart. And "NO MAN IS A FOOL".
MAN IS JST LOOSING MONEY BUT THE LADY IS LOOSING DIGNITY.
hey i hope we re not forgetting some thing here think of married men today over 80% are not sincere to their wives they go after young ladies ...infact in our soceity today i must tell u most men are not sincere....as for they ladies in most cases i have seen its intimidation /fear trying to escape from purnishments and all that they tell lies.in my own opinon i think the female are more sincere than the male.
Otuonye i want u to contribute to this
Cheers.
i want to say thanks to u all for ur contributions so far.
Thanks.
'HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN,....LET HIM CAST THE FIRST STONE!!!
as far as im concerned,sincererity is not a gender thing,so we should stop trying to get at each others necks here.Majority of both sexes are very insincere...so the whole thing boils down to morals,the way u were brought up and what u beleive in.
i sincerely dont believe that there is any yardstick for assessing the difference in sincererity amongst gender.
sincerity is the thing of the mind it has more or less nothing to do with gender.If you are a male and you decide to be sincere to you spouse it increase love and understanding for both of you and if you decide not the worst it will be for you and if a lady the same as above.
The bible says ''let thy yes be yes '' it pronounce sincerity it does not speal out gender(male or female ) so as we strive for perfection let put in our best to be sincere in all our doing and the good lord will BLESS US all in JESUS NAME(amen)
with my past experience i think guy are more sincere to ladies.
why becos a lady may say yes today tomorrow she might no.
Is a good debate thanks
cooloteri
At least u were sincere enough to own up.MIND U,not all guys would lavish a gift on ladies just 2 sleep w 'em.I once lost a gal 'cos I wasn't sleepin w her.Funny enough,I neva new why she jilted me until resently.Meanwhile I thought was playin a Gentleman.B/4 I went 4 NYSC,my gal then was cryn N beggin me 2 make love 2 her cos she was affraid i would leave her!Dilemma u would say.But who is really fulling who?
Regards.
well yes, not all guys spend money to sleep wit a girl but majority does. either way guys n girls lie n pretend 2 get wateva it is dey want. so as far as im concerned, nobody is sincere.
4m personal experience, sincerity doesnt always make a relationship work out. not dat im encouraging lies n pretense, but a person chooses to believe wateva he/she wants 2 believe no matter hw sincere d oda party is. so no matter hw sincere i am wen i tel a guy i like him, he mite jst choose to believe im after his money n a guy telling a girl he loves her mite jst make d girl believe he's claiming love cos he has an ulterior motive.
d truth is dere is so much deception n insincerity dese days dat i wonder hw pple get married. it takes d grace of God
Great contributions from Cooloteri, dokson and brainbox
BUT
Contrary to Cooloteri's opinion about how much insincerity, deception, dishonesty and what av u.......................have eaten deep into our society, i believe true likeness, genuine dealings and interests still exist among the duo.
It may be extremely difficult to find but first believe that there is someone out there who shares same views with u, who thinks closely as u think and also operates @ a similar frequency as u.
Then there wont be need to question either party's level of sincerity.
Cheers!
Well, i want to ask this question to the men,who do u think stay married the men or the woman?most times its the women that help to take care of the home while the men are reckless in their pursuit of new soap to eat as they call it.
The both sides have their weaknesses but the woman stay put when married why dont the man do the same thing.
TEADEWOLE AND DOKSON HAVE SAID IT ALL
SINCERITY IS NOT A GENDER ISSUE AND ALSO WE STILL HAVE PEOPLE WHO WOULD GO TO GREAT LENGHTS FOR THEIR PARTNERS AND WOULD REMAIN SINCERE TILL THEY DROP.
BUT YOU KNOW THE TOPIC IS VERY DIVERSE, IN BUSINESS I WOULD SAY LADIES ARE MORE SINCERE THAN GUYS. WHEN IT COMES TO MONEY MATTERS MOST GUYS CANNOT BE TRUSTED.
YEAH YEAH SOME WOULD SAY LADIES COLLECT THE CASH FROM THEM BUT YOU KNOW THIS IS NOT ALWAYS TRUE. MOST OF YOU GUYS SEE LADIES AS PARASITIC AND DEPENDENT WORMS (THE WORST TYPE - TAPE WORMS), THIS IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE O.
WE HAVE SOME VERY STRONG AND INDEPENDENT LADIES WHO DO NOT TAKE GIFTS FROM GUYS JUST THAT AT TIMES YOU MEN CAN REALLY SPOIL ONE SO LADIES BE CAREFUL O.
ANYWAY HOPE YOU GUYS HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND.
GOD BLESS
TBABY.
thanks all