PLEASE! Advice Me, this is a matter of Urgency!!!
I am a young married man in my early 30s'. I just got this new well payin job @ a fast growing company but incidentally, I resummed to meet with this beautiful Ibo girl that am supposed to be workin with but incidentally, she is always coming up with unnecessary issues & ways of tryin to make trouble with me. I even proposed to her "officially" that we should work together as husband & wife so as to make work go on but still, this started well but the continuation was worse. I am new at this company & tryin to make a positive impact but I feel this lady is intentionally tryin to "slow me down". The expectation on me is huge & i want to deliver but this lady, please advice me.
Re: PLEASE! Advice Me, this is a matter of Urgency!!!
What sort of trouble is she giving you?
if she is hitting on you and you dont like it, say so
Do not compromise, what you want define it NOW and stand by it.
It is well o
God bless
Re: PLEASE! Advice Me, this is a matter of Urgency!!!
@opeanjola,wat if u resumed to discover it was a man like you that was working in her place or avery ugly and local girl that u are not attracted to that was there and exhibiting that same attitude to work,wat wud u have done? wat you wud have done is exactly wat u wud do now. do your work with the least sentiments atleast 4 the sake of your family.good luck
Re: PLEASE! Advice Me, this is a matter of Urgency!!!
I cant really explain what her attitude is BUt i can tell u that I fell she is scared my employment was to take over her job. I have sat her down severally to let her know that I am in the company only to make her work easier but her countenance tells it differently. I have consult the advise of older staffs in the company and all i could get is to totally ignore her and consentrate on my job. This lady happens to be my only team member and i am worried that her attitude might affect my future evaluation in the area of team management! Please, counsel me! ???
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@uti, Thanks. Mind u, I dont have problem working with her, I think shes' got an attitude problem but however it is, I wount let that affect my professional relationship with her. Thanks all the same, cheers
Re: PLEASE! Advice Me, this is a matter of Urgency!!!
A problem well explained will get a better solution :o