Must a woman....

Must a woman/man tell her husband/wife everything ? Give reasons for your answers.

Good heavens, NO!

You want to break up a happy home? There are times when the truth NEVER sets you free.
What he or she may never know about will not hurt them.

Dear TUS Ray
No matter how we look at it,truth remains truth.It will always set you free when you follow it dictates.However discretion and wisdom are both profitable in a marriage bond relationship ........

Yours
Jibowu

I would say everything you tell let it be the truth, what is not the truth better..........because no matter the amount of love that exist between you and your spouse, never rule out the fact that you are still two different HUMAN being ...the choice of keeping your home is yours.

NO MATTER HOW SOME OF US MAY LOOK AT IT, MY ANSWER IS YES, AS A COUPLE ALWAYS TELL URSELVES EVERYTHING, IT MAY NOT BE GOOD IN SOME ASPECT BUT FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE AND TRUST. IN EVERY OF MY RELATIONSHIP, I TRY AS MUCH AS I CAN TO BE FREE WITH WHOEVER AM DATING COS I BELIEVE WITH THAT I CAN EARN HIS TRUST, AND VICE VERSA.IT IS THE BEST. ;)

Intresting response. :)

a woman will always be a woman and will tend to see/hold issues in different and oftentimes irritating light....but if u get the good, strong, reasoning, manlike and rare type just be totally truthful and free with them...they can help u out of the most difficult of situations, to ur greatest surprise

kemistkris, I think the first paragraph of ur post is quite disgusting, and am sure all women on Naijahotjobs will agree. 

That having been said, I agree with smilekadi. If u must talk about it, tell the truth, if its something he/she shldnt know about, just dont mention it!

;D ;D

@ikeelizabeth, am sorry if i did hurt ur feelings , but l was only expressing my opinion which am very much entitled to...

u ve already proved that a woman will always be a woman by using the the word DISGUSTING...l think its a very inappropriate term to use...a lady who never met me before had the effrontery to refer to me as a PERVERT ...these are instances..., most women can make mountain from mole hills, gossip dangerously, generate unnecessary panic and tension, crave for unnecessary noticing, be emotional even with serious issues....

whatever, its still good to be truthful totally to your patner, but a man should not tell his wife/partner everything...

regarding whether the woman sholud tell her amn everything/the truth...l think she should becos if the situation dare gets out of control later one of the questions she will be asked is this ...did u tell the man who married u...women are helpmeets...that we are routing for gender equality doesnt change that fact... the man is the head of the home...SOMETIMES WHEN U PLAY WITH KIDS ITS GOOD TO ALLOW THEM TO WIN

DO U KNOW THAT GOD WAS HAPPIER WITH ABRAHAM FOR NOT TELLING SARAH THAT HE WAS GOING TO SACRIFICE ISAAC THAN FOR THE FACT THAT HE OBEYED...

lets be honest with ourselves, can u imagine what would have happened to Abraham if he tried telling sarah that God asked him to kill their only son...i believe there was motar, hotwater and hotsoup in those days...paint the remaining part of the picture

BY THEIR FRUITS WE SHALL KNOW THEM

@florafab !!


By what fruit ?

@florafake...
sorry, florafab l meant...

Kemistkris pls cool down, there's a reason why this is called a forum, it's bcos it's an embodiment of different people, different minds and different view points, if florafab made a statement i don't think it was personal, although it was direct that i must confess but i don't think there was any malice attached to it, so please the both of you let's give peace a chance.
Who knows the both of you might be walking down the aisles soon, you never can tell, the "fishing out and the short sharp shock" might turn out to be a happy union, so please i dey beg una make una take am easy oh, cos me i no get power to separate fight oh.

@kemistkris and florafab
;D ;) :D

i agree with what saint2ace said,we are different beings with different upbringings, minds and what have u, pls for the sake of love,peace,let us learn to always ignore somethings,it is not everything that one responds to.afterall flarafab also made a remark abt me and coolguy but i just laughed over it. pls, i wouldn't want u guys to start exchanging words ok. it is ok.

@ Florafab/Kemistkris!!

Please Please and Please!

Stop this war of words OK.

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