i am losing faith....help

:'( :'( :'( :-X :-[
I have attended so many tests and interviews,and thats the end.
nobody calls me back,is it that i am so dull or i am not smart enough or i am not eloquent or i am so non chalant people just see a foolish person sitting at their opposite side,or like what someone said...i am too plain or not beautiful or i don't use makeup the way i ought to.
Please,I am getting fed up of the whole thing,maybe the option left for me is to put up an application to get married to the desperate ones available.
God help me!!!!

Perseverance, patience and Time is the Key. My sis ur time will come.

Just be optimistic! Everbody has a trying time. Me too i'm down. 1st bank recruitment is giving me head ache presently but i'm just hoping for the best. Sister what ever situation u're praise God & be optimistic. Ur are better than the dead! U have hope! Cheer up! And inall be prayerful. God is interested in ur Joy and not sadness so relax The Lord is on ur side.

the expectation of the righteous shall not be cut shorth... God never fails have faith dear

My dear,it is called CHALLENGE, :)it comes in stages and it will always be there in our lives,permit me a moment to tell you about it.
Think back to the days you were in primary school,at this stage,your biggest challenge,I'm sure must have been how to make good grades and get into secondary school,and did you make it??u tell me. :-\
from there you moved to another stage where the challenge was about writing SSCE and JAMB to get into a higher institution(for most of us,who had 2 repeat JAMB and SSCE,u know wat i mean)and were u eventually admitted??well....... :-\
There at the higher institution,you had 2 face yet another stage of challenge..from lecture stress,lecturers' bias/harassment,unwarranted carryovers/spillovers to incessant travels to and fro your family home and school,so i ask again did you eventually graduate?? :)
Right now you are in another stage of challenge...jobseeking,which will just like the other stages pass away.and then u get a job :D,when you do(which you will anyway)you will be faced with another stage of challenge in the form of an irritating colleague,an overbearing and domineering boss or even the job stress itself >:(.
From there you move on to marriage/domestic challenge which will inevitably come in the form of husband,children,neighbour or even houseboy/housegirl wahala. ???infact it goes on and on.
You just need to understand Challenges are part of our creation,as such we have been programmed to assimilate each one as it comes and prepare for the next one that will unavoidably and inexorably follow ;) :).
So my dear,it's got nothing to do with your looks and judging from your post,you dont sound dumb in anyway...it's just not your time yet.
I want to assure you that IF GOD SAYS YESSSSS......

@busybee,
what ugosly gave is a very good advice &encouragement you should adhere to.
Pls hang on,it will be well.

PLS DNT LOOSE HOPE, YR MIRACLE IS ON THE WAY.WE ALL ARE PASSING THROUGH THE SAME JOB HUNTING PROCESS WHILE BELIVING GOD 4 THE BEST.U WILL SOON SMILE GOD IS ON YR SIDE.

With time and proper focus, things will fall in place for you as long as you don't give up.
You may have attended so many interviews and written many tests; that's not a sign that you can't get a good job.
Like you noted, you may be lacking some skills in your approach during interviews. What I advice you do is to assess yourself after any interview or test then "FILL IN THE GAPS". 8)

The bottom line here is SHARPEN UP your skills and above all commit it to God's Hands!

Goodluck!

@Busybee
You are more than what you think you are.You are great,educated, and thoughtful and above all you have a mind.Let not unemployment get your mind abused.For in your mind lies your greatness,creativity,power for achievement, and innovation.
Busybee, The road before you may seems weary ; the path may be very turbulent; know for sure this path has been trodden by many great women of today in the past in ages when they were no body yet they came out a success.
You will come out successful
You will be victorious
You will be celebrated
Busybee you belong to the top and there you will manifest.
Busybee you will laugh soon.
One luv
Jibowu

well, ur job is probably waiting for you somewhere, and all these is just to prepare you for that job, so hang in there and have faith, meanwhile intensify your search and very soon we (naijahotjobs members) will all be thanking God for you when u post ur success (employment letter).

Please dont think that getting into marriage is the solution,bcos marriage itself has is own wahala,its just a process which sometimes we have to pass through.
Believe in God and in urself and by the grace of God u will get ur dream job.The fact that u can write an aptitude test and pass makes u not a dull one.Stay focus and u will laugh at the end.
Cheers

As the beauty of light is better appreciated as it shines in the darkness,one would then understand the wisdom of God in allowing darkness to precede light,chaos to precede order,voidness to precede fullness,and vanity to precede hope.Though the latter of the above categorization is that desirable to all humans,God still allows the former,if only to prove His Almightiness and control of His world.So,let go of your fears, grab God,cling to Him and believe strongly that light would surely break forth at end of this tunnel.Mind you, you are alone in the struggle.
Cheer up.

Good Talk,
@Busybee When It's your time it's ur time and ur time will surely come. Believe me or not Getting a job is the begining of another set challenges! Meanwhile marriage should not be seen as an escape route as it also has its own troubles that has cost some people even their jobs! Above all just be aware that GOD is in TOTAL CONTROL!!!

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Originally Posted by ugosly

My dear,it is called CHALLENGE, :)it comes in stages and it will always be there in our lives,permit me a moment to tell you about it.
Think back to the days you were in primary school,at this stage,your biggest challenge,I'm sure must have been how to make good grades and get into secondary school,and did you make it??u tell me. :-\
from there you moved to another stage where the challenge was about writing SSCE and JAMB to get into a higher institution(for most of us,who had 2 repeat JAMB and SSCE,u know wat i mean)and were u eventually admitted??well....... :-\
There at the higher institution,you had 2 face yet another stage of challenge..from lecture stress,lecturers' bias/harassment,unwarranted carryovers/spillovers to incessant travels to and fro your family home and school,so i ask again did you eventually graduate?? :)
Right now you are in another stage of challenge...jobseeking,which will just like the other stages pass away.and then u get a job :D,when you do(which you will anyway)you will be faced with another stage of challenge in the form of an irritating colleague,an overbearing and domineering boss or even the job stress itself >:(.
From there you move on to marriage/domestic challenge which will inevitably come in the form of husband,children,neighbour or even houseboy/housegirl wahala. ???infact it goes on and on.
You just need to understand Challenges are part of our creation,as such we have been programmed to assimilate each one as it comes and prepare for the next one that will unavoidably and inexorably follow ;) :).
So my dear,it's got nothing to do with your looks and judging from your post,you dont sound dumb in anyway..'s just not your time yet.
I want to assure you that IF GOD SAYS YESSSSS......

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DEAR BUSYBEE,

DON'T LOOSE HOPE. THERE IS AN APPOINTED TIME FOR EVERY MAN OR WOMAN TO ACTUALISE THEIR DREAMS. IT HAPPENED TO A MAN CALLED JOSEPH, HE DREAMT GREAT IN LIFE BUT HE WAS SOLD OUT AS A SLAVE, THEN TO THE PRISON, FINALLY TO THE ACTUALISATION TO HIS DREAMS. I DECLARE TO YOUR LIFE TODAY, THAT YOUR DREAMS WILL COME TO PASS AT THE APPOINTED TIME OF GOD IN JESUS NAME. FOR MORE ABOUT YOUR TOPIC, VISIT: www.wordofhopem.org

God did not promise us a SMOOTH journey but a SAFE one. Believe me sister, when your time comes, 3 months of working will make you forget all the years of stress. However, while hunting for the "GOOD" job, don't hesitate to "MANAGE" the not-so-good one. I call on my heavenly father Jehovah Jireh(The provider) to provide you a job a.s.a.p and not to allow you slide into frustration/temptation, AMEN. YOU ARE BLESSED!

My dear,Where there is life there is hope.My advice is this: Look UNTO to JESUS, the author and finisher of our FAITH.

........ so stick to the fight when you are hardest hit... it is when things seem worst that you must not quit..

my sister hold on cos ur breaktru is about 2 hapen.dis are part of the story behind ur glory

I was crying i had no shoes,untill i meet someone without feet.(confusius)
just bear in mind that there are people who graduated years b4 you,and they are still believing God for a job.Cheer up,put ur trust in God,he never sleeps.

Wao! i cant believe hw much love u guys are givin out 2 busybee.Am impressd.girl,u can see dat u `re not alone.
u`re time can be delayd but not denied.One house,i like the sincerity with which advice is being given.keep up the good
work.Am glad to join dis team.

My dear, Tell it to Jesus.

Ur time will come

If you can lay your hand on anything start with it.

Some persons are not destined to serve as employees. Self employment is the cry of the hour. Start with what you have where you are.

I ecommend you read a book by SAM ADEYEMI titled THE PARABLE OF DOLLARS

Also check out this thread

http://www.naijahotjobs.com/index.ph....html#msg64950

Girl,You got to be strong just stand on your feet and say no to defeat,jah will do the rest cos if i tell you what i'm facing now you will be thanking God for your own.

my dear, i understand what u re passing tru. because ,i am also experincing the the same thing but i ve decided to commit everything to the hand of God and i very soon he will make a change so my dear i urge u to do the same , it is well with u.

Girl, i want u to understand that delay is not denial, you will not be unemployed forever. You might as well enjoy ur life now, by the time the job comes you will not have the time to read books or do many things u have the time to do now. You are on pre-job break, therefore make the most of it. Do let us know when u eventually get that job. Shalom!

I will be very straight with you. God does not 4get all that he has created. if u r ugly, read Gen. 1 v 31, for a very long tym, i was full of regret bcos of the family i workd for 4 8yrs BUT when God reviewed by page, after 8yrs, I got my brilliant result only after a weekend, i.e. friday, saturday & sunday. By Monday, I became the envy of all. read Luku 1 v 37, have faith & God will surly c u tru. Shalom!

dont rush into marriage so u will nt rush out

My sis,kindly share of my slogan 'tough time never last,but tough people do'also 'thegoinng gets tough when the tough gets going' so renew ur faith and be optimistic,one of the satanic tools when our miracle is around the corner,is to let this type of tought set in,so stand up as your miracle is at ur door step,also never opt for your option of getting married to the desperate ones,as that might be your most expensive mistake. God be with us.