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I know dat dis forum is not for dis but am looking for where to get solution fast. Pls don't judge me but let God be d judge, my sister was raped 3 idiots last 2months wen she was coming back from work at nite n now she is pregnant, we need to abort the baby but we did'nt know any good Dr dat can handle it, pls is u know any Dr just give us a direction pls cos she dosen't want to born a bastard. Thanks for ur contribution.
And who tell you the baby is going to be a bastard??? Have you not read from the holy book(s) that God hates all sorts of killing(murder) including abortions??? If you sincerely want God to be a judge in this case, never do what will displease Him so that you don't loose His favour. Allow your sister have the baby and put God to the test, wait and see His hands in your life, and I bet you, your sister will never be in want to take care of the baby. Who knows, the baby might your deliverer and the joy of your entire house. (Malachi 3:10; Psalms72:12,13). A word...
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Hnm,never knew kolefemi was a pastor.For me the issue here is not whether the baby is gonna be a bastard or not,but let her check her hiv status and then keep the child in the orphanage home
@Ehis_avater; I am not a Pastor, and don't aspire to be One. I just believe in the Bible and all the truth it teaches. It is for our benefit. 2Timothy3:16,17
Na wa o, she shud have taken precautionary measures after the incidence na... Try contact ur family doctor.
Na wah oh, Bokites population is increasing oh
@buela, stop lying. If you are pregnant and want to abort, look for other forum to seek info and advice. By the way, you could die if you try abortion. Rubbishshshsh....
@guyismine, wat is bokite?
@ifeolukotun i belief dat u r not a woman cos if you r, i don't think u 'll sounding like dis, as am talking to u now am married woman with 2kids ok, n if i get gregnant i 'll born d baby, i am just trying to help her cos she needs it. Not me. Pls any lady wit contact pls.
@ Ifeolukon, Bokites is another name for Boko Haram.
@buela sorry about the whole incident, i tink u shld post this on perhaps NL u will get a better reply and advice or who knows somone with the same ordeals might share his or her story and how they went about it.
stealin a penny and abortin a baby r sins of same scale b4 God but different b4 man.God overlooks d damages of sin but frowns at d intent 4 commission of sin.if ur sis was truly raped,let her deliver d baby.d judgement of life and death remains to 2God
@buela: post your question on naira.land's family and health section.
Stop al this, if she is ur sister wil u allow her 2 have d baby and caused d agony that wil never be forgotting. Tel ur family doc and find a way out. Save 2day so that u can fight 2morrow
True talk @Bunmmy
I don't support abortion, but those that are saying she should give birth 2 d baby, what happens when the child is of age and demands 2 know who his/her father is?? Its 3guys that raped her not one...Its easy 2 say keep it but if u are a woman and u're carrying a pregnancy of which u don't have an idea who d father is, I'm sure keeping it wouldn't be an option....Anyway @Buela, i guess this forum won't provide the answers u are looking for....like others said try or even naijapals
@Adiaha, u are indirectly supporting abortion. @buela, u should have knwn the answer by nw.
Let her have d baby. God is not man. Obey his laws. U don't have 2 understand God. Just trust and obey.
Let her give birth 2 d baby. God is not man. Obey his laws. U don't have 2 understand God. Just trust and obey.
Pls abort and start a fresh lyf. God wil surely understand. Ask 4 forgiveness and i knw u wil surely be forgiven. Our politician are d real murderer.
Life is sacred.murder is murder no matter the way its been done.buella,i understand vividly the pains and trauma of rape but at the same time abortion is not the best solution to the problem.two wrongs,they say cannot make a right.we are talking about the life of an innocent baby here and not an animal that u can maim the way u like.am sorry to say this,if u truly claim to be a mother of two then u dont value life.this is because pregnancy is the most mysterious thing that god fashioned and uptil now no scientist can give life.thus,it shows that it is only god that has the right to give and take life.by giving your consent to this act,u are already a murderer and u ve also made your sister a murderer.where is your conscience?
Nigerians!!! Fucking Hypocrites!!!
If u don't know a doc, just say u don't know a doc. I wonder who asked for your judgments, like if twas your sis you'd be quoting d bible.
Ur sister has chosen what she wanted cos immediateley she was raped whe was suppose to go see d doctor and flush her system @least visit a pharmacist nw that she is pregnant don't look for peole to implicate on judgement day follow ur heart and whatever u like
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Hmmm. i'm a christian but this is a veeeeeery dicey situation. Buela, ur sis was raped and it was a horrible experience trust me. Not just a guy, but 3 guys. Now, usually the FIRST thing you would have done for her was to take her to a gynaecologist so as to ascertain the nature of her body, extent of the bruises that was caused as well as put her on medication to prevent STI's probably from maturing. Also, they would have counselled her at once and prevented this stupid pregnancy. Why would she go through the trauma of being raped and now have to face the trauma of having a baby for some rapists. Buela as the pregnancy progresses, she would CONTINUE TO REMEMBER d incident and its not healthy for her because she can never love that child. I'm not talking about all these hypocrites condemning u on dis forum, but my dear Buela y wasn't she taken to d hospital IMMEDIATELY? For God's sake she even needs to start taking Anti-Retro-Viral drugs to start with. Then she needs counselling. I can't support d abortion but i feel her pains. You can't even help her now, a GOOD GYNAECOLOGIST can. Pls PM me. Treat as urgent.
You are kidding right?